Friday 22 May 2015

What is yours? Naught but what you make.

        We all have things we want. Things we're good at. Things we're good at because we want them and then there's the best; things we want because we're good at. If there has been two things I've always wanted, its more knowledge of the world and the ability to fly. The inquisitive part of me was something I got from my father who is undoubtedly the wisest man I've ever met. When I was a kid, me and my dad used play 'Quiz' daily before I went to sleep. It was a fun experience because I got to learn beyond what I was taught in school and quench my curiosity too at the same time. Thanks to this daily dose of general knowledge, I was an active and successful participant in a lot of quizzes during my school life.

        Inter house competitions, Inter school competitions, whatever level it was, I was almost always a participant and more than once a winner. But eventually I left the inquisitiveness in my heart behind for academic priorities when I left my school. The years after my schooling were all focused on specific curriculum based subjects and practicals and the like. I got little to no time to even indulge in general reading. In my under graduation again, I started participating in quizzes but the two year lapse had taken its toll on my imaginative inquisition; not to mention the level at which these quizzes were conducted was entirely different from what I was used to. Nevertheless, my ego wouldn't let go of the memory of me of years past, besting people in contests of knowledge. But it was not to be, for a lot of reasons.

          College though, in one way or another, finds a way to keep you and your ambitions together. I one day saw an invite for an event where we could create questions for a quiz and send them in, which if selected would provide an opportunity to host my own quiz. I immediately got my grey matter on the job and created a quiz centered on my favorite and one of the most interesting topics out there: Indian Mythology and History. Sadly, I never heard back from the event organizers but it was a refreshing thought, that there were still arenas wherein I could continue to be a part of the 'knowledge race' as I like to call it.

         As circumstance would have it, I got another opportunity. My dad called me a few days later and asked me to create questions for the quiz he would be conducting at Rangaraya Medical College, where he has been teaching Physiology to first year medicos. I, for one, was taken aback. I did not expect I was getting to participate in such an event and certainly did not think my questions, which I have to admit were more centered on showcasing the grandeur of Indian Mythology rather than to tease anyone's grey cells would be up to the task. But my father encouraged me to do my best and create a lot of questions covering more than just Mythology and History. Thus started my association with a wonderful annual event which I've enjoyed only more as the years went by.

        I sent my father the questions and kept mum, not expecting them in the final draft for the quiz. A month later, my father tells me "The students loved the quiz. Your questions were very much appreciated. They actually want me to thank you, because contrary to every year there was a diversity in the questions this time. Good work!" I was really happy that I could help my father in conducting the event and that was it. But, since then, every year I've look forward to september when my father tells me, "The quiz is a go, get the questions ready!". I rush to my knowledge bank, full of anticipation and energy, happy to again be a part of what I left behind with little thought. Though I was so happy to be part of these quizzes, I never realized one thing. How much the students actually thought of them; until the year after I returned from my M.Sc.

        One of the first things my father told me on my return from UK was, "Its quizzing time, get your questions ready." All he had to do was give me the green light. The previous year too, I sent questions to my father thought I was still settling down in UK; the quiz was an event I too looked forward to now. I had been pushing an idea for a 'Rapid fire round' wherein the contestants would have to answer a lot of questions within the given time and stood a chance to make up for a lot of lost points in the final round. Though well conducted, the event sometimes would take up more time than originally agreed upon, and my father normally did not accept. But this year, I insisted. I was in a really enthusiastic mood, since y Masters had gone quite well and I was home after a year. 

        Finally the day of "Quizza", time for everyone to have their share of quizzing. I was there on time with my father and helped set everything up. The students were adamant that they do everything, but I was having too much fun!! I was actually part of a quiz after so many years and I was going to savor it! In reality I was quite surprised they all knew me by name and when they came up to me and started talking, since I never met any of them. They were all wonderful students, so eagerly looking forward to testing their intellectual mettle.

         The quiz started. I was sitting in the first row, making as much of a ruckus as that of the supporters of a particular team when the contestants would answer a question I didn't expect them too. In all honesty, I did not expect them to be able to answer a lot of the questions I cooked up, but I was happy to have been proven wrong more than once. Then came my favorite, the Rapid fire round. Even during my quiz participation days, I used to enjoy those kind of rounds a lot, being given the opportunity to turn the tables at the last moment. They faster my father kept asking, the faster they answered. Out of all the teams though no one answered all the questions allotted to them, they had totally blasted through the expectations I had for them. They were way more well prepared than I'd expected them to be and I was happy to have been an assistant quiz master. 

           Once the winners were announced, there was a lot of cheering and happiness about. But in reality, it was after the event was over that I got to know how happy the teams really were. Each one of the participants came down to me and thanked me. Each one. They all said the same thing, "Man, you create such interesting questions, we just can't wait to prepare well enough year after year." That was when I realized; the reason behind me feeling so much happiness from these events was not because I made it something of mine, but because the students made me and my questions one of their own. The event was a success year after year because the students kept rising to the challenge repeatedly, pushing me and dad to be better than ourselves in creating questions. Now I truly understood why my father took time off of his schedule however busy he may be. It wasn't because he enjoyed quizzing them. It was because they wanted to be challenged and they wanted to prove themselves and as a teacher, he was more than happy to provide them with that opportunity. After I realized this, I have been looking forward to the event even more and hope to be a part of it for as long as possible.

         A thing is not beautiful because it may last forever, but because while it lasts, it is always bettered through effort. My dearest friends in Rangaraya, you've truly made this ring true time and again! 

        

Wednesday 13 May 2015

A family's tradition and a village's celebration.

        Somidevara Palem. A village in the east godavari district of Andhra Pradesh. The place is quite small; you could walk around in an hour or even less. Dominantly an abode of farmers, it is the place whence we of the 'Saladi' household have our roots. And the identity and center of our village is the temple which greets you as you enter, the temple of Lord Venkateshwara. The temple built by my grandfather's father, the late Mr. Sri Rama Chandra Murthy.

        Every time we visit our village, we always visit the temple and thank both our forefathers and god for all that we have to be thankful for. Of all the things I remember about our temple, one that always instills in even an agonstic like me a sense of spirituality is the yearly 'Kalyaanam' (marriage) of the Lord. Every year, in the month of may there is a celebration commemorating the establishment of the temple. The temple was established in 1975 and in that may, the first ever ceremony of kalyaanam was performed. A couple from our family or any outsider who has received our consent can conduct this ceremony. A family priest always aids in the proceedings so as to guide the performers according to the traditional process(es).

         The entire kalyaanam process takes 5 days and is taken part in with the utmost devotion by both those conducting and witnessing. The first day involves letting everyone know that the ceremony has started and that they are invited. There is a 'pandiri' (an artificial enclosure) erected in front of the temple, signalling the invite. This is followed by a 'Dhwajhaaroohanam', a ceremony in which the central pillar, the 'Dhwajhastambham' of the temple is emblazoned with the image of 'Garutmanta', the messenger of the Hindu gods. This is done in belief that garutmanta will convey the message to all the gods that there will be a kalyaanam of Lord Venkateshwara in the forthcoming days. There is also the lighting of the holy pyre, the 'Homam' which will burn non stop for the following 5 days of ceremonial proceedings.

         The second day is the main, including the actual marital ceremony of Lord Venkateshwara to his consorts Sri Devi and Bhoo Devi, the goddess of wealth and of the earth, respectively. This part is especially well attended, being central to the whole 5 day ceremony. The devotees take great pride in witnessing the marital ceremony, every year, as if it was their first time seeing it. Every year we always have a lot of people wanting to perform the ceremony along with their husband/wife. This interest not because of them viewing the chance to conduct the kalyaanam as a position of power but as a responsibility they whole heartedly cherish and love. After the ceremony is complete, the 'Prasaadam', the holy offering is distributed amongst all the people.

           The third day is more about the devotees than it is about the Lord himself; being conducted in may, the devotees brav the peak summer heat in attending the ceremony and being a part of the celebrations. And so, the next day, the devotees who visit the temple are offered holy sweetened water and hand fans as a thanks for visiting the Lord even in such harsh conditions. The fourth day is conducted by and amongst the priests who've been overseeing the preceedings. They perform a 'Pooja', a holy ceremony to celebrate the Lord and his consorts' marriage.

          The fifth day is again an eventful day, involving two different ceremonies. The first is the 'Chakrasnaanam', wherein the effigies are washed in the water of the temple's pond as a symbol of sanctification. The second is the 'Pushpotsavam' wherein the Lord and his consorts are placed on a swing and served, much like the 'Unjal seva' in Tirupati. Later, the effigies are placed inside the temple in solace, much akin to giving newly weds their space. This ceremony, though done with simple elegance, has to it the heartfelt devotion of an entire family who show their thanks to the god and the appreciation of an entire village that shows its devotion with such wholesome participation in what started as a family tradition.

             I share this with you all not to build my family a pedestal but to portray the picture of what a true 'giver' can do. My great grandfather was a man of extraordinary discipline and scrupulous character and he had such an impact on our family and our village that to this day I see the Kalyaanam be performed with as much devotion and elegance as it was the first time. The very first kalyaanam involved my entire family of then, literally. My great grandparents were the ones conducting the ceremony, my grandparents conducted the dhwajhaaroohanam and my grandfather's two younger brothers established the 'Gopuram', the highest part of any temple.

               For a tradition of such simple roots to have been alive to this day in this ever disconnecting world is, I believe, a testament not to the strength of my family but to the amount of respect they have for their elder and the gratitude they have towards god for always keeping us afloat in the ocean of life. One day, I too hope to become a proud part of this tradition and carry on my family name with pride and a firm sense of belonging to the best of my capability.